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4 Strategies for Holiday Family Spending

Budgeting and Creative Gift-Giving
Tori FilasBy Tori FilasNovember 4, 2024
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During the holidays, many families feel pressure to spend more than they can afford. According to LendingTree, nearly half of parents with children younger than eighteen will take on holiday debt, averaging $1,100. That compares with 32 percent of those with children older than eighteen and 29 percent of those with no children, averaging $976 and $983, respectively. Holiday habits don’t have to cause financial strain. By watching your finances and enjoying creative, cost-effective traditions, we can celebrate our favorite festivities without overspending.

Here are some strategies to help you do just that:

1. Begin with a Holiday Budget

Before diving into holiday shopping, take a moment to establish a realistic budget. We all know that gifts, decorations, food, and entertainment can really add up. Prioritize what’s most important to your family and allocate your funds accordingly. This not only helps you avoid overspending, but also encourages mindful decision-making.

To create a holiday budget for your family, establish a spending limit. Determine how much your family can afford to spend this season without dipping into savings or relying on credit.

Next, list out your expenses. In addition to gifts, be sure to include holiday meals, travel, decorations, and any additional activities. Break down the total into categories to see where your money is going.

It’s important to track your spending and keep a close eye on household expenses throughout the season to ensure you’re staying within your budget. With a budget in place, you can enjoy the holiday season with reduced financial stress, knowing that every purchase is aligned with your family’s values and goals.

2. Consider Creative Gift-Giving

Many of us show our love for others through gift-giving, so it’s easy to become financially overextended during the holidays. Take time to talk to friends and family about alternative gift exchange options that promote healthy spending and sustainability.

Bartering is an excellent way to refresh your children’s toy collection while sticking to your budget. This fun approach involves swapping gently used toys, books, and games with neighbors, friends, and family, allowing everyone to enjoy new-to-them items without spending a dime.

Start by reaching out to neighbors, friends, and relatives with children of similar ages. Ask them to bring toys, puzzles, board games, and books that their children no longer use.
In an organized swap, you might set up a space where items can be displayed by category, making it easy for participants to browse. Consider giving each participant a ticket for every item they bring, which they can exchange for another item.

At the end of the event, any leftover items can be donated to local charities, spreading holiday cheer to those in need while helping families declutter.

Gift exchanges are often beloved holiday traditions, but they can be expensive. This year, consider a swap-and-surprise gift exchange. This budget-friendly alternative involves giving and receiving second-hand items that are still in great condition, promoting sustainability and reducing waste.

Much like you would establish a spending limit on a gift exchange, you should set guidelines for the regifting swap. Agree on the types of items to be exchanged, such as clothes, books, toys, or household goods. Encourage participants to choose gift items that are gently used and in good condition.

It doesn’t have to be something you own. Explore thrift stores, browse online marketplaces, or swap items with neighbors. The thrill of finding a unique, affordable gift adds a fun twist to holiday shopping.

You can also encourage creativity in your gift-giving circles with DIY gifts. Homemade cookies, crafts, or photo albums are heartfelt and cost-effective.

These creative gift-giving strategies reduce the pressure to buy new, expensive gifts, making it easier to stick to your budget while still giving thoughtful presents.

3. Curb Consumerism with Meaningful Experiences

Instead of shopping for the latest gadgets, focus on creating meaningful experiences that bring your family closer together without the need for a mountain of material gifts.

Plan activities like a movie night, a day of baking, or a winter hike during the holiday season. These experiences create lasting memories and can be enjoyed on a budget. Give tickets to upcoming shows or concerts or memberships to local museums.

By prioritizing experiences over material goods, you can curb consumerism and focus on what truly matters during the holiday season.

4. Give Back and Spread Joy

Finally, consider extending the spirit of giving beyond your own family. Organize a community drive to collect gently used coats, shoes, and toys for local nonprofits. Involve your children in the process to teach them the importance of generosity, compassion, and empathy.

If your family is able this holiday, spend time volunteering at a local food bank or shelter. This not only helps those in need, but it also reinforces the value of philanthropy.

This holiday season, focus on financially savvy and sustainable traditions that bring joy without the stress of overspending. By building a budget, planning for creative gift-giving, and prioritizing meaningful experiences, you can celebrate the season in a way that won’t break the bank. Here’s to a holiday season filled with sharing, caring, and thoughtful giving!

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Tori Filas
Tori Filas

Tori Filas is a senior financial educational specialist at Virginia Credit Union, where she works with preschoolers through eighth graders, as well as their teachers and parents. She is the mom of two sons – one is a student at Appalachian State University and the other is a recent graduate of VCU. In her spare time, Tori enjoys writing children’s books and trying new restaurants.

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