It’s easy to get caught up in comparison when it comes to the holidays – the gifts, the decorations, the activities…it can be overwhelming. I’m here to tell you that what works for one family may not work for yours, and that is okay. When my kids were toddlers, I simply did not have the energy nor desire to take them on long or expensive outings around the holidays.
My kids (and I!) thrive on routine, so skipping naps multiple days in a row wouldn’t work for us. Not to mention, I did not want to spend lots of money on an activity that could go awry at any minute. As we know, when you’ve got toddlers in tow, making an immediate exit can happen at any time! So, instead of trying to do all the expensive or lengthy outings, I opted for these simple and fun ways to enjoy the season with my littles, while keeping my sanity in tact!
Hot Chocolate at Quirk
While I enjoy a tearoom as much as the next Bridgerton-enthusiast, I just could not rationalize bringing my rambunctious, albeit adorable toddlers to a fancy tearoom. So, instead we opted for hot chocolate in the lobby of Quirk Hotel.
The pink Christmas tree is always a highlight, as is the delicious hot chocolate. Spending about $25 for our entire family to enjoy a fun morning out is much more affordable than a holiday tea experience. Plus, no reservations are required, and you can be on your own schedule, staying as long or short as you like.
Free Santa Visits
Don’t get me wrong, I love the magic of Christmas. I just don’t like spending a fortune for it, which is why we love the free Santa experiences at Cabela’s/Bass Pro Shops and Westchester Commons (select days, visit their website for the schedule).
When your kids are very young, they may not even want to visit with Santa, so there’s no reason to spend lots of money or fight for a reservation. Save yourself the stress and money by going to Cabela’s, Bass Pro Shops, Westchester Commons, or another free Santa visits event. Walk-ins are welcome at Cabela’s/Bass Pro Shops, but make a reservation to be sure you don’t have a long wait with your littles.
Be sure to check out the RFM Calendar for more Santa sighting opportunities!
Dominion Energy GardenFest of Lights
This is a paid activity, but hear me out. With toddlers, I’d much rather have them walking or in a stroller than in the car. I love being able to see the joy on their faces while they experience the lights. Plus, walking through the lights tires them out more than sitting in the car, so you may get a later wake up in the morning! And bonus! – tickets for children under 4 are free for Dominion Energy GardenFest of Lights.
Model Trains at Great Big Greenhouse
While there are several holiday train rides (and we’ve done one with bigger kids!), I do not recommend these for toddlers. Instead, take your child to Great Big Greenhouse where there is a large train display by River City 3 Railers. My son loves to see the trains and is completely mesmerized by the detail. If you plan your visit on a weekend, you just may see Santa, too!
Hopefully, with these ideas in mind, you can plan some fun activities for your young family. And, remember, do what works for you and your family! You’ve got this!
